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How to build a positive attitude?
Before starting I would like to ask some questions,try to answer them.
1) What do you think what is a positive attitude?
2)Why you need this?
Let me answer,if you know the answer good.!
"Look for gold"
Let's understand with a analogy.
A Man founded a gold inside a small hole,he digged there he founded more gold's, continuously he did same but this time he found only Dirts and soil.
He ended up and Gone with small qauntity of gold he had digged.
Some days Later,another man came he seen an shiny thing,he finded it was gold.He removed Dirts and funded some more gold.He was not rich enough to be live happily,but the gold's bring hopes inside him.He started digging the ground many days later he don't event find a single piece of gold,he was almost giving up but his soul and heart didn't.he was tired so went home and next day he came again,He digged and founds Bunches of gold,hardwork payed him...!
He became rich enough to hire someone,so he did hired 10 persons they all started digging and find a lots of gold,he sold golds and also share with those people worked for him.
Slowly slowly became a gold mine..!
The first man who has given up,he was surprised as he was passing from same way..and asks the another man I had digged a lot and I found only soils and Dirts.I was just removing the Dirts I don't found any gold here,how you ...?
Man replied,I was finding gold,I was searching for golds.In order to gains gold you have to remove tons of Dirts.
What you learned....?
Let me tell,see conversation again,you will find the first man was digging soils, removing gold's another person was doing same but for gold,he was focusing on gold,how many golds are left to be harnesses,while another was Just focusing on soil how much soil he has removed.
Focus on what you want not what you don't.Many peoples are doing the same thing.But person with positive attitude look for positive part.
What you are looking for gold or Dirts...?
Gold are you goal,purpose,you work,passion and success while Dirts are failure, obstacles and negativity.
So this is positive attitude,looking for positive,even in worse situation.
It is not easy to look positive in worse.
The mind is shaped from childhood to notice more on negative part.but if you do practice of it,you will be a man with positive attitude,regardless of what and how are you now.
Here definition of positive attitude is hard to define,you have to understand it.
Hope you have understand it.
Why do you need this positive attitude..?
You need because you need....that's it,you don't want it you need this some time you have to move without reason,
But some of reasons are to have healthier life,it make more chance to succeed, peace in life.
How I can build positive attitude?
1)Look for the positive.
You have learnt this why and how in analogy.
2)Make habbit of doing now
We have all procastinated at some time in our lives,what remain is to regret later,this build negative attitude.
When I became a big boy.
There is little boy who says when I became a big boy I will do this and became happy,he becomes a big boy but then he says when he will finish his college,he will be happy,when he finishes,says when I will get good job I will be happy.when he get a good job..he says I will happy when I will be married,when he married,he says when my son will finish his education he will be happy...his son did,than he says I will be happy when I will be retired he will be________ guess what happy you are right.
What does he see,life is just gone.
A great poem to telling truth
He slept beneath the moon.
He basked beneath sun
He lived a life of going to do
And died with nothing done
-james albery
3) Develop an attitude of gratitude
Count your blessings, not your troubles.
Take time to smell the roses. It is not uncommon to hear that someone, because of an accident, became blind or paralysed but won a million dollars in settlement. How many of us would like to trade places with that person? Not many. We are so focused on complaining about things we do not have that we lose sight of the things we have. There is a lot to be thankful for.
4) Get some education
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I don't mean go and take degree on how to build positive attitude and became successful.
True education is training of both the head and the heart. An uneducated thief may steal from the freight car but an educated one may steal the entire railroad. We need to compete for knowledge and wisdom, and not for grades. Knowledge is piling up facts, wisdom is simplifying it. One could have good grades and a degree without learning much. The most important thing one can learn is to "learn to learn". People confuse education with the ability to memorize facts. Education of the mind without morals creates a menace to society.
Article is long so I will share remaining in next part ending this article by a short story
There is a story about a man who sold hotdogs by the roadside. He was illiterate, so he never read newspapers. He was hard of hearing, so he never listened to the radio. His eyes were weak, so he never watched television. But enthusiastically, he sold lots of hotdogs. His sales and profit went up. He ordered more meat and got himself a bigger and a better stove. As his business was growing, the son, who had recently graduated from college, joined his father. Then something strange happened. The son asked, "Dad, aren't you aware of the great recession that is coming our way?" The father replied, "No, but tell me about it." The son said, "The international situation is terrible. The domestic situation is even worse. We should be prepared for the coming bad time". The man thought that since his son had been to college, read the papers, and listened to the radio, he ought to know and his advice should not be taken lightly. So the next day, the father cut down his order for the meat and buns, took down the sign and was no longer enthusiastic. Very soon, fewer and fewer people bothered to stop at his hotdog stand. And his sales started coming down rapidly. The father said to his son, "Son, you were right. We are in the middle of a recession. I am glad you warned me ahead of time".
What do you think about this story...?
A person can be successful without education or with it if he have.
- Character
- Commitment
- Conviction
- Courtesy
- Courage
Source of knowledge:- book:- you can win
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