Avoid these mistakes, if you want better and successful life,6 reason why people fails.
At a Very important
stage of my life, I suffered a lot. I was in misery and lots of confusions. I
failed to do what I always wanted to do, but I didn't and eventually and
undesirably I have to face the failure. Which has become lifelong burden for me.
I can't suffer anymore, So I took some time to Realize my faults, so I will do
not repeat again. I finded lack of some very important qualities that bring
extraordinary out of ordinary, and those who develop these qualities in their life,
what we called them" a great person ever lived"
I am sharing this
with you, so if you are making these mistakes Directly or indirectly avoid
immediately and bring about change. So at least you can live happier, peaceful
and satisfied life.
1.Believe.
The biggest mistake most of the people makes even I admire, that they do not try to at least believe. When I was going to meet my love k......... I can't mention her name, I can't meet him, and when I was thinking about starting a business that can really contribute in development of society I lack to do so, you know reasons the only thing was to believe, I didn't put any effort to believe was just struggling with my mind. If I was able to go back in time what I do is to, I will take all action which heart says, even my mind doesn't allow me, I will take these actions, by believing in the universe and super mighty God, that he will at last give me what I always wanted from heart. So, if you are confused, I should do this or not? Listen to your Heart, and compare which decision will be far better in terms of results for long term and also for society.
“Be brave to stand for what you believe in even if you stand alone.”
2.Courage.
This is another
most-most and most essential qualities of great person, you can't take any
great action until you exit from your comfort zone, it needs courage to get out
of comfort zone. It takes lots of courage to face the people when time and
events are not in yours favor takes courage to continue even you have
consecutive failure and setbacks, and it takes courage to walk on path of
righteousness and your principals continuously. If you have courage than
you have freedom to do anything in anytime. I were Happy now if I have courage
to take actions, but.....bad luck.
Remember courage doesn't mean absence of fear, but courage means to face and beat the fear, courage doesn't mean to not to cry and do not fall down, it means to bounce back and run again.So, if you have to do great work for society and the world, have a courage,build it by facing your fears.
Nelson Mandela: "Courage is not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it.
3.Consistency.
. “The secret of success
is constancy of purpose.”
Consistency is that fire🔥that burns all the reasons of failure, it is a fire 🔥 which gives energy to you to works for your goal and your subconscious mind to until you succeed. Consistency is one of the biggest factors that affects the accomplishment and make success in your hands. What I did is doing things for short intervals of time for weeks for days or sometimes month, I was not consistent I give up so soon, if I were consistent I was one of the successful people today rather than just what I am today.
I suggest you as your
friend to do what you are doing with consistent efforts and you will succeed definitely.
Success and excellence are the results of consistent conscious efforts.
So be consistent there
is always change in time may be next turn is yours.
4.Discipline.
Discipline means to do
your daily task even if you don't want to do it, may be due to procrastination or
other things but you decide to do these because you know these are important
for your life.
I was very undisciplined,when I decides to do this but later I decides to do this, then this and this. This and lots of this
but I can't able to complete single "this”. If this happens with you than
you need to bring changes within yourself.
Be committed to your self if you have decided something than do it.
“Discipline is the bridge between goals and accomplishment.” – Jim Rohn
Because to be consistent
it requires discipline.
5.Patience.
Patience is another
factor that define a great person have you wonder how some people are so successful?,
they do hard work, they are genius etc,but they are genius because they
learning from decades by reading self-help books, by getting newer experience,
they do hard work hence they are successful, some people would say I also do hard
work but why I am not successful?, see these great people are doing hard not from
some months or year but decade, they suffer a lot but there spirit didn't
allows them to give up, they remain patience and keep doing these work with consistently and here is the point of difference that is patience,try until you succeed.
“Patience is not the ability to wait, but the ability to keep a good attitude while waiting
I was not able to be
consistent so give up so soon, but now I will try again to do what I needed to
be done.
6.Focus.
“Concentrate all your thoughts upon the work at hand. The sun’s rays do not burn until brought to a focus.”- Alexander Graham Bell
Focus is father of all
the best qualities above mentioned, a single focused man is more powerful
than sum of 100 unfocused people. You take any successful people you will find
focus is most common thing in majority of successful people.
So be focused in your
life.
What was happening with me is whenever I do something and then some noise distract me than in frustration I leave my work which I was doing, I hope I were also focused so I remain consistent to my works.hence focus is also very important it allow us to work in any situation and make us stable in any situation.You can read how to control mind.
I hope you will learn from my mistake and you will not make your life hell by doing these mistakes.
Thanks, you.
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